May 31
last night,just after trying very hard to explain if one is 有心 in a r/s, i ponder abt mine.
i ponder abt mine in 2 ways.
1. am i 有心?
2. is he 有心?
define 有心, you may ask.
to me, it’s the smallest action/thing that you do for the r/s which sometimes will go unnoticed or taken for granted.
it could be:
- showing a big smile when u meet at the end of a day.
- waiting
- not allowing the other to wait too long.
i think i am but a tiny little incident disappointed me today.