LoLLiGoesPop

Why does Scrooge love Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer?
Because every buck is dear to him

“Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful.”

Lolli says:
Christmas is always a wonderful time to give and recieve!
dun ya agree?? *wink*

“worrying is like a rocking chair. it gives you something to do but gets you nowhere.”

Lolli says:
worrying is part and parcel of life.
we are always worrying abt this and that.. but u know wat’s the 1st worrying thing we have on our mind?
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
yes.. no doubt abt it.
why $ is number 1 on our worrying list??
how come we dun worry abt terrorism/environmental issues- global warming/blah blah blah..??
perhaps it’s due to the infinite financial commitments that we have.
juz count the no. of commitments u have:
1. phone bills – HP/house phone/parent’s hp bill
2. broadband bill
3. cable tv bill
4. electricity bill
5. car loans
6. insurance
7. allowance for parents..
the above mentioned are the commitments of a single.
imagine a married person.
that’s why most families nowadays… both mum & dad has to work, in order to support their living expenses, not forgetting extra $ is needed for those with kids.
i muz say that some of my peers are pretty fortunate.
some only have hp bills to pay.
some dun have to give allowance to parents.
envy siah..
recently i’ve been worrying abt something. and when i found out the results/conclusion, i can feel my heart settled down. how abt no longer sitting on a rocking chair, in the quotes’ context lah..
sometimes, we chose not to know the truth cuz we know that we are not gg to know the truth we wanna know.
and thus, we put the issue to an improper closure. more like chuck it at the back of our brain.

Quote 1 : “The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.”

Lolli says:
many ppl out there belongs to this category where they are happy as long as ppl around them are happy. and thus they try their best to keep everybody happy.
sometimes by bringing gifts, sometimes by compromising and i guess, most of the time, they make others laugh.
then i thought to myself… are they truly happy when others are happy??
do they really feel good/happy when others are smiling/laughing/happy??
if they are.. well, then i’ve got nothing to say.

Quote 2: “There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved… ”

Lolli says:
i guess this would be very true for those who has found their love and loved in return.
living in happiness every moment.
let me break this down further….

a. to love
is it really happiness to love someone? yes!
but when things turned out wrongly… to love someone becomes a torture/pain/heartache.
thus many chose to be loved instead.
but of course, many ppl out there continue to love…
there muz always be some who will love… and some who will be loved mah.. if not, no balance.
not true lah. if there’s a balance.. then divorce rate wouldn’t be so high rite?

b. to be loved
being loved.. is wonderful.. i guess.
i dun think one can be loved w/o loving the other who is loving. it’s 2 way mah..
i think it’s a little bit confusing.. let me try put it clearer..
boy loves girl. girl is being loved, rite? though being loved is wonderful and nice.. but if the girl dun love/like the boy.. i think girl wont feel the love lor..
perhaps.. to be loved… meaning that one would love the other more. see.. no balance again!

conclusion: this quote would applies to those who have found their MR/MISS Right!
so does this quote apply to you? *smile smile*
if yes, i’m happy for you!! really..

tat day, a fren asked abt how to be happy.
my reply was… being happy is something tat happens for a split second.
and it can be simple.
imagine this…
one day, u pop me with my fav ice-cream/chocolate/anything else.. i would be surprised! and at tat split second, i’m happy – my smile would be from left cheek to right cheek! heee…
sometimes, ppl think that they have to do a lot… or spend a lot of $$ to make their partner happy.
but then… the partner might juz want them to treat them like a prince or princess with little gestures or body language aka action.
guys.. do take note of the following tips:
sweeping hair off her face
putting her hair behind her ears
stroking her hair
letting her sleep in your arms
planting a kiss on her forehead
dropping little notes in her organiser/wallet/anywhere else

all the above mentioned may resemble gestures that is seen in dramas/movies.. but trust me, all girls would like to be treated like a princess somehow.
show her how much you adore her today! send her an ecard…*wink*

“There is no use worrying about things over which you have no control, and if you have control, you can do something about them instead of worrying.”

Lolli says:

sometimes, you try to set aside your worry/worries. but after a few hours, it comes back to you.
i tried.
it came back to me.
and thus i decided to do something abt it.
at times, sixth sense works. trust it.

“Work is either fun or drudgery. It depends on your attitude. I like fun.”

Lolli says:

this is very true. it all depends on one’s attitude abt work.
right now, i dun know if i’m really having fun though attitude’s fun & un-fun?!
i’m not making sense. dun intend to make sense.
these few days… i’m not really making sense.
those who msn me, would know tat.

Reality is wrong. Dreams are for real.

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched … but are felt in the heart.”

Great is the Art of Beginning; Greater is the Art of Ending