LoLLiGoesPop

Quote 1 : “The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.”

Lolli says:
many ppl out there belongs to this category where they are happy as long as ppl around them are happy. and thus they try their best to keep everybody happy.
sometimes by bringing gifts, sometimes by compromising and i guess, most of the time, they make others laugh.
then i thought to myself… are they truly happy when others are happy??
do they really feel good/happy when others are smiling/laughing/happy??
if they are.. well, then i’ve got nothing to say.

Quote 2: “There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved… ”

Lolli says:
i guess this would be very true for those who has found their love and loved in return.
living in happiness every moment.
let me break this down further….

a. to love
is it really happiness to love someone? yes!
but when things turned out wrongly… to love someone becomes a torture/pain/heartache.
thus many chose to be loved instead.
but of course, many ppl out there continue to love…
there muz always be some who will love… and some who will be loved mah.. if not, no balance.
not true lah. if there’s a balance.. then divorce rate wouldn’t be so high rite?

b. to be loved
being loved.. is wonderful.. i guess.
i dun think one can be loved w/o loving the other who is loving. it’s 2 way mah..
i think it’s a little bit confusing.. let me try put it clearer..
boy loves girl. girl is being loved, rite? though being loved is wonderful and nice.. but if the girl dun love/like the boy.. i think girl wont feel the love lor..
perhaps.. to be loved… meaning that one would love the other more. see.. no balance again!

conclusion: this quote would applies to those who have found their MR/MISS Right!
so does this quote apply to you? *smile smile*
if yes, i’m happy for you!! really..

tat day, a fren asked abt how to be happy.
my reply was… being happy is something tat happens for a split second.
and it can be simple.
imagine this…
one day, u pop me with my fav ice-cream/chocolate/anything else.. i would be surprised! and at tat split second, i’m happy – my smile would be from left cheek to right cheek! heee…
sometimes, ppl think that they have to do a lot… or spend a lot of $$ to make their partner happy.
but then… the partner might juz want them to treat them like a prince or princess with little gestures or body language aka action.
guys.. do take note of the following tips:
sweeping hair off her face
putting her hair behind her ears
stroking her hair
letting her sleep in your arms
planting a kiss on her forehead
dropping little notes in her organiser/wallet/anywhere else

all the above mentioned may resemble gestures that is seen in dramas/movies.. but trust me, all girls would like to be treated like a princess somehow.
show her how much you adore her today! send her an ecard…*wink*